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What to Expect from Young World Changers

We’ve come to expect a few things when volunteering with our kids, and just in case your family is thinking about serving more in your community this year, consider this a heads-up:

Expect your kids to lick their fingers when baking treats for people who are sick.

Expect your daughter to tell other volunteering families long-winded stories about the kid at school who drinks Mountain Dew for breakfast, throws tiny bits of erasers, and mumbles curse words all day in class. Then, despite you giving your best evil eye, expect your daughter to toss out edited examples of the above mentioned curse words, “Well, he says the a-word, the d-word, the h-word…”.


Expect your girl to repeatedly ask the pouty teenager who is also volunteering, “So, what exactly is required community service?”

Expect your heart to swell.

Expect your child to climb into a giant cardboard box and discuss loudly how terrible it is that people never donate fruit.



Expect your daughter and her friends to wear scarves in ninety-degree weather to sell lemonade for a cause.

Expect pajama clad kids to make you feel guilty for thinking all they care about is the Wii.

Expect your kids to change.

Expect your family to change.

Question for you: Any fun and silly things you’ve come to expect from your children lately?

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Linking with Jen and the girls.
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24 comments:

Rachel M. said...

Charlotte has just started announcing herself loudly everywhere we go. Like at restaurants, "Hi, my name is Charlotte". For a 3 1/2 year old, it's kinda funny. Then Sam follows with a big "HI", he's 1 1/2. I guess I have happy kids!

Amy Sullivan said...

Rachel,
Of course Charlotte introduces herself! How else will people get a peek at her fabulousness? Our almost three year old does the same thing, only it's more along your son's lines.

Hey, thanks for the love you left for me over at http://stillthesea.com/2012/01/the-benefits-of-peer-pressure/

Fun place and sweet words.

Cindy Bultema said...

Don't you just love kids?! My little Sarah had the courage to give a Bible to a family member this Christmas who is an atheist. This relative thanked my daughter and received it really well. Sarah didn't think anything of it ~ he didn't have a Bible, he needed one, so she wrapped up her favorite one and gift it for Christmas.
Not a fun and silly example (sorry!) - but it came to mind...thinking expect kids to walk in forward in their Christ-like faith.
Happy New Year ~
Cindy :)

P.S. I wanted to send you a private message, Amy. Could you send me a quick note at cindy.bultema@gmail.com at your convenience. TY :)

HopeUnbroken said...

what i took from this today, amy---don't let reality get in the way of service.
when my kids don't meet my expectations, sometimes it can lead to frustration and a "why did i bother?" kind of attitude from me. you continually show me that it is within the serving that they learn and grow. and really, do any of us do it perfectly, even as adults?
i am challenging myself and our family to get out and do more this year. i'm looking forward to seeing what fun doors will open as a result.
thankful for your heart today!
steph

Kristy said...

Very cool. Your daughter is a character, her own girl, and I love it!

Michelle said...

Sometimes I think our kids have all the right answers and we have all the wrong ones. They aren't afraid to say the truth. They aren't afraid to share what they think are injustices. Many times I wish I were young again (except a believer this time), just so that I could share with my family many truths and not be afraid to offend them.

Jen said...

I never know which Hannah is going to show up -- snobby or compassionate. But lately, I've been surprised at how often the compassionate side has come out and for that, I am eternally grateful.

Jennifer @ GettingDownWithJesus.com said...

Sounds familiar. :)

I love the compassion -- and yes, even the honesty -- of the world's little servants.

bluecottonmemory said...

LOL - my teen on migraine days gets to take a Mountain Dew with him to school! I never thought that action would exist in my parenting world - but caffeine makes a huge difference for him.

I love children's honesty, even when it makes me blanche - and, yes, baked cookies are sooo much better if the baker licks their fingers! My teen was talking about how irritating his little brothers were - and I told him that God gave them gifts - and it just takes time to learn to wield their gifts gracefully. Kind of like learning how to use a sword.

And there is beauty, as you show, in giving our children the opportunity to wield their gifts! I so loved your story - each line!

Critty said...

I smiled at your post. Oh kids they bring fresh and interesting perspectives at times :) I think it's great that they are learning to volunteer!

Brandee Shafer said...

Good stuff, Amy, in and for and from your kids. And their parents.

Carolyn Counterman said...

Hmmm... didn't raise any little ones. My stepsons have started offering me hugs, though, instead of grudgingly accepting them. The four-year-old granddaughter who used to beat up the other kids when she was just 2 has decided she needs to be held and hugged as much as possible. I figure she is female, so she has a right to change her mind. ;)

Tonya said...

Hi Amy,

I'm so glad you found my blog so I could find yours :)

Oh, my kids. They certainly surprise me - especially the teen these days. We had to buy him HIS FIRST SUIT for an occasion later this week. Hilarious! He was so excited and said he can't wait to try on the entire ensemble. This from the boys who lives in t-shirts and jeans...

Kendal said...

you make me laugh! i love your children! and btw, didn't cook the pigs' feet yet. someone brought some dinner over last night instead. will definitely make it a point to blog about it when it happens:)

Loraine said...

What is great about kids and serving, is they tell it like it is. And why DON'T people donate fruit? Good question. Probably because it is too much work on our part to get it to them before it spoils. sigh.

Kids do not have filters or inhibitiions and while at times that can be embarrassing, other times it makes your heart swell.

Susan said...

What a sweet post! I once had my surly teen supposedly run back to the car for something. I was suspicious; sometimes Moms know when their child is not being truthful. Years later I found out she'd seen a homeless man and had run out to give him her money.

Thank you for visiting my blog. I love it when I get comments!

JDaniel4's Mom said...

I love that your children are learning to change the world! What a great thing for them to do.

Nancy said...

This is such a great, authentic glimpse into what it looks (and sometimes sounds) like to teach kids to serve. I like to think my language and behavior is all sunshine-y and godly when I'm serving, but that's not necessarily true. And yet God continues to invite me to continue to serve in my awkward, bumbling, finger-licking ways. Happy New Year Amy!

David Rupert said...

I love that you are involving your kids in service. No, they won't always get it now. But the modeling is so important and something they'll always remember.

dawnbright said...

Hey Amy! Hope you had a fabulous Christmas and New Year! I took the month of December off. My kids are hard to motivate to do something for someone when I ask them, but on occasion I catch them giving back when they aren't aware I am looking. Makes my heart smile!

Laura said...

And my heart is swelling now...

Shannon Milholland said...

This is such a beautiful list!

Abby said...

Oh love these...especially 'what exactly is required community service' and this great journey that leads you deeper as you refuse to give up:} & and make us all laugh at the glorious real~ness of it all:}

lori said...

This is so cute. I love your Amelia and her perspective. She is awesome. On a cute side note, Abigail told me she prayed for Amelia last night. I thought it was the sweetest thing. Just wanted you to know so you could pass it on...

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